In a nutshell, my mother passed away and I took a break from writing. Our fun adventure turned into a race to get home. I’m doing better now and will complete our story. For those who come to this site to read about all the good times, you might want to wait for the next posts.
I do this site because I want to and it’s therapeutic. Who knows, someday when I’m wasting away in a nursing home, I can look back and re-live some of my adventures. I need to “feel it” to write it so sometimes I need to break. That said, here’s what happened:
While we were relaxing and lounging around on Conception Island, the Assisted Living facility my mother was living in called to let us know that her condition was quickly deteriorating both physically and mentally. Due to Illinois laws, Assisted Living facilities are limited in the level of care they can provide, and my mother was starting to exceed that level. Unfortunately, the facility that she’s lived in since 2020, does not offer Skilled Nursing and the only option we were aware of was moving her to a Nursing home. How as I going to do that from the Bahamas?
We ended up having several conference calls with the management and care team at her facility. My goodness, what a difference adding StarLink to the boat made. In years past, all we had was Iridium or local cellular service. We were on Conception Island and there were NO communication options. No cell service, no electricity, no stores, no people, no nothing! StarLink allowed us to have video conference calls, send documents back and forth, and do what was needed. Yeah, I might have gone snorkeling and paddle boarding between calls, but I was on top of things.
After working with the care team at the facility, we decided it was best to have my mother moved to the memory care unit at her facility. I also had her put into hospice, which gets around most of the limitations in the Illinois laws. We did have to move her, but it was just down the hall, not across town or state. Her friends were still there as was her care team that she knew and loved.
As good as StarLink was, it couldn’t teleport me there to give her a hug and explain what was happening and why in person. Fortunately, a close family friend was in town and was able to be my “person on the ground”. She went to the facility, helped us explain to my mother what was going on, and give the much needed hugs. I cannot thank her enough for being there and helping at such a crucial time.
At that time, Sue and I decided we needed to head home as quickly as possible. The season was over for us and it was time to get home. Yeah, the quick and easy answer is to pull into a marina and fly home. But, for how long, and I don’t fly, so this wasn’t really a good option for us?
Our plan was always to keep the boat at Safe Cove boat yard in Port Charlotte FL for the summer, so we let them know we’d be arriving early, and we made a bee line to Port Charlotte. Before we left, I needed to stop in Rock Sound in Eleuthera. That’s where we rode out the COVID dystopian nightmare in 2020. It feels like my second home and I didn’t want to leave the Bahamas without stopping by and seeing some of the locals who took care of us during those crazy times. It was on the way and only added a couple of days. Who knows, someday when I grow up, I just might move there. In a house, not a boat.
So we pushed for Port Charlotte as quickly as we could. Once there, we hauled the boat out, rented a car, and drove home, battling a snow storm all through Tennessee. I was was in shorts, a t-shirt, and flip-flops while I was pumping gas during the snow storm. We finally arrived the evening of Wednesday February 19th, spent the 20th with my mother, and on Friday the 21st she passed peacefully with Sue, my brother, and myself at her side.
Sorry, no pictures in this post. More to come.
































































































